Before We Were Yours: A Novel

What a treasure this book is. It’s heartbreaking, has a mystery of some sorts and a mini love story. Most importantly though is the love of family, in all generations, and how that love can strengthen you and keep you safe. The story is told in chapters, reflecting back to the past then flipping to the present day. It’s told exceptionally well that each past era chapter explains enough to keep the reader invested to know the outcomes. The present day chapters are finding the mystery and putting the pieces together on who was in the photo and how they were connected. The fact that this novel is based on true events makes it even more compelling because I felt even greater for these kids and what they went through. It also made me root for them trying to survive and get their next meal. When a book can evoke so many emotions and feeling towards characters, you know it’s a brilliant one and well worth the read.

This is a story of 5 siblings, especially the oldest sister Rill, who try to stay together after they are kidnapped from their shanty boat home by agents of one of the most prolific human traffickers in US history. In the story, their love for each other and desire and attempts to protect one another are both heartwarming and heart wrenching. Thankfully the ending is heartwarming and not tragic, because I don't think I could have handled a tragic ending to a book that already had so much heartbreak. If you love children, this is a very difficult story to read. I personally believe that there is a special place in hell for people who harm children. The part that makes this story so awful is that the Tennessee Children's Home Society was a real place, and Georgia Tann was a real person who trafficked an estimated 5,000 kidnapped children in for profit adoption schemes that lined her own pockets. She preyed on the socioeconomically poor parents that she stole the children from, but also on the adoptive parents that probably desperately wanted children. And I'm sure that the vast majority of them were fed a pack of lies by Georgia Tann and legitimately believed they were adopting children that had no other family in the world. She also preyed on the children themselves, forcing them to live in dangerous, unsanitary and often abusive conditions. It's just disgusting. On further research about Georgia Tann, it appears that she held to the belief that there were two kinds of people: the poor, whom she viewed as incompetent parents, and the wealthy. She fattened her own purse in the process. For DECADES. "She just thought that she knew better than God." One survivor reunited with her birth parents stated: "The Bible says you're not supposed to hate anybody, but I'll tell you, if that woman was still living . . . all those people she did this to, all the suffering she caused for money. And she couldn't take a dime of it with her." The writing is compelling and the children are wonderfully developed. I just wanted to give Rill a hug and tell her she was amazing for trying so hard to be a good big sister and to look out for the little ones. They try so hard to be resilient and look out for one another in the worst of circumstances. I pray that my kids would stick together like that, god willing they will never be in situation where they are permanently separated from family. The people on the river and the Seviers are also wonderful to read about. The one thing I could have done without was the half baked love triangle with Avery. After the 3rd Avery chapter, I just started flipping through those parts because they were so irrelevant to the rest of the story. This was a single-day read for me because it was so compelling. I just had to see how it ended. I cried for Gabion, he reminded me so much of my baby. I'm glad it ended the way it did.

I would say it’s closer to 3.5-4 stars for me. I will also be upfront that this book is not what i normally read so my view will definitely differ than most who pick it up because they are interested. I read this for an online book club, and I think it was an interesting read and well written. The tragedy of the story line was felt. The idea of taking a real event and creating a story that displays some of the things that occurred makes me feel mixed about it. I feel the past telling and the older woman’s parts were great. I didn’t care for Avery and her love story line.

"Before We Were Yours" by Lisa Wingate is a captivating novel that intertwines past and present, delivering a powerful story brimming with emotion, mystery, and resilience. This book delves deep into the intricacies of family bonds and the dark corners of history that many would prefer remain hidden. The narrative toggles between two timelines: one centered around Rill Foss, a young girl living in 1939 Memphis, and the other following Avery Stafford, a modern-day lawyer exploring her family’s mysterious past. The story opens up with young Rill and her siblings, who live a carefree life aboard their family's shantyboat on the Mississippi River until they are abruptly taken away from their parents and thrust into the corrupt Tennessee Children’s Home Society orphanage. Here, they encounter unimaginable hardships while clinging to the hope of reuniting with their loved ones. Wingate weaves Avery's journey gracefully alongside Rill's heart-wrenching past. Avery stumbles upon an old photograph that ignites her curiosity, prompting a quest for truth that uncovers long-buried secrets impacting her own identity. Her search serves as a conduit, bringing the harrowing experiences of Rill and her siblings to light, revealing how these past injustices have rippled through generations. Wingate’s writing is vivid and evocative, painting each scene with rich detail, which makes it easy to become immersed in the world she has created. The characters are well-developed and relatable, drawing readers into their struggles and triumphs. The emotional depth of the story pulls you in, evoking a range of feelings from anger and frustration over the historical injustices depicted, to hope and admiration for the characters' resilience. What sets "Before We Were Yours" apart is its ability to shed light on real historical events—the scandal involving Georgia Tann and the Tennessee Children’s Home Society—while crafting a fictional narrative that is both poignant and inspiring. It’s a testament to the power of familial love and the human spirit’s capacity to endure against all It invites reflection on the importance of understanding our past to better appreciate and shape our present and future.

Very good

I really enjoyed reading this book. It is a well told story with relevant historical facts. Would definitively recommend this book!

If this hadn't been a Kindle daily deal I probably wouldn't have stumbled across it as I wasn't familiar with Lisa Wingate's books prior to reading this fictional story based on a true American historical tragedy, I certainly was unaware of the magnitude of the injustice to American children and families. I particularly enjoy fictional stories that are based in history so this ticked a lot of boxes for me as I was transported yet learnt something along the way. I am so pleased I did buy "Before We Were Yours" as it is an engrossing story and an eye opener about Georgia Tann and the Tennesee Children's Home Society in the 1930s time frame. Set in both the 1930s and present day the book follows the story of the Foss children in the '30s and Avery Stafford in present day. Avery Stafford finds an unusual photograph that causes her to unearth a number of secrets and lies inside her upright, respected family. What follows is a heartwarming story of love, betrayal and memories pieced together from a heart wrenching period in time. This was easy to read despite the challenging subject matter, which just made it utterly thought provoking. I enjoyed the characters and how the book was layered to reveal parts of the story at a time. In addition to the well developed characters and background love story, I liked the realistic view of the 1930s. The book has parallel story lines that weave together nicely. This is a beautiful story of heartache, love and the unthinkable. It made me Google more info and read up on what took place during that period. I know it will stay with me for a long time.

Well written. As you keep on reading you find out the mystery,the people involved. Until the end you wont have a clue.

祖父母と孫の両世代に跨ってお話が同時進行、米国南部で暮らしていた5人姉妹は何故お母さんが出産する嵐の夜に孤児院に連れ去られたのか、Averyが追うJudyお婆ちゃんの秘密とは……、謎解きで読ませます。 Mayと名前を変えさせられたRillの長女ならではの健気さに涙しつつ、まさかこんなことが本当にあった訳じゃないだろうなと読み続けたら、なんと実話に基くフィクション。そこが一番のショックでした。 つい最近まで、長らくNYT紙ベストセラーでした。