Fat Gay Men: Girth, Mirth, and the Politics of Stigma: 1 (Intersections)

After reading a review of 'Fat Gay Men' on Slate, I picked up the book. While I can understand the intended goal of the author: normalizing fat gay men-- I'd say he didn't succeed. The book is written as a thesis, but seems to try straddling between an academic paper and a casual read. It doesn't fare well as either.I'm also stumped as to why, after spending great lengths explaining the plights and victimization of fat gay men, the author made was never critical of his subject material. Why do these men, who feel so victimized, latch so strongly to the role of victim? Why do they not feel they can (or should) change? Is the gay community truly as unaccepting as these men feel? None of these issues, which would seem to me as relevant, are even addressed.If you're looking for a book that will enlighten you on a community you don't understand, I'm sorry to say this book isn't it.

I very much was looking forward to receiving this book, but was quite disappointed when I opened the envelope.It had a very sticky cardboard stretched across the front. That is not all right.

A beautifully written book about the big men of the gay community. I loved it. I can relate and I learned so much. Great job!

Whitesel explores stigmatized body size within gay male society and the mainstream. His work uncovers the social injuries fat gay men suffer, how they manage to reimagine their positions in society, and their attempt to socially elevate themselves. Whitesel, as a thin man, delicately discusses the privileges, and lack there of, that come from different body shapes and sizes. Really fascinating book. Must read.

Overall this was a stimulating read. The author could of done a better job addressing the issues associated with values of being masculine vs femininity in the gay community. That said I really resonated with much of the content in the book.