--- product_id: 11699279 title: "Choosing ME Before WE: Every Woman's Guide to Life and Love" price: "€ 42.41" currency: EUR in_stock: true reviews_count: 13 url: https://www.desertcart.com.cy/products/11699279-choosing-me-before-we-every-womans-guide-to-life-love store_origin: CY region: Cyprus --- # Insightful transformative wisdom Empowering self-help guide Top-rated life-changing read Choosing ME Before WE: Every Woman's Guide to Life and Love **Price:** € 42.41 **Availability:** βœ… In Stock ## Summary > πŸ’– Choose YOU first β€” because the best relationship starts with self-love! ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** Choosing ME Before WE: Every Woman's Guide to Life and Love - **How much does it cost?** € 42.41 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.com.cy](https://www.desertcart.com.cy/products/11699279-choosing-me-before-we-every-womans-guide-to-life-love) ## Best For - Customers looking for quality international products ## Why This Product - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Key Features - β€’ **Real Talk, Real Growth:** Raw, relatable stories and actionable techniques for breaking old habits and creating fulfilling connections. - β€’ **Designed for Every Woman:** Whether single, healing, or partnered, this guide meets you where you are on your journey. - β€’ **Unleash Your Inner Power:** Empowering wisdom that challenges you to prioritize self-love before relationships. - β€’ **Stimulating Self-Discovery:** Packed with thought-provoking questions that spark deep personal insight and clarity. - β€’ **Join a Movement of Self-Love:** Become part of a community of women refusing to settle and choosing their true worth. ## Overview Choosing ME Before WE is a bestselling, highly rated self-help book by Christine Arylo that empowers women to prioritize self-love and create fulfilling relationships. Filled with personal stories, practical exercises, and transformative insights, it guides women through self-discovery and emotional growth to stop settling and start thriving in love and life. ## Description Full of sass, soul, and the type of empowering wisdom that no woman should live without, Choosing ME before WE is like a heart-to-heart with your closest girlfriend. And best of all, you’ll discover that your closest girlfriend is your own truest self, inside you, always ready to offer wise, loving advice about what is best for you. Designed to challenge and guide women to create the relationships they want instead of the ones they often find themselves stuck in, this book is packed with stimulating questions to uncover what’s true for you, powerful techniques to change old habits that sabotage your dreams, and real-life experiences shared by the author, her friends, and her clients. Author Christine Arylo, who almost married the wrong guy for all the wrong reasons, speaks to women of all ages, whether they’re seeking a relationship, evaluating a less-than-fulfilling one, rebounding from a bad breakup, or working through issues with a partner. Choosing ME before WE teaches women to stop settling, to get real about the kind of partner they’re looking for, and to start exploring and creating what they truly want in themselves and their relationships. Review: This book has changed my perspective on life 180 degrees! - I have recently been on a journey of self-discovery and I decided to explore the long list of self-help books that will give me insight on love, relationships, and dating. You have to really be at a transitional (or desperate) point in your life to start reading everything and anything that will give you clarity. In the midst of this existential phase, I have read many many many books, but this has by far been the most life changing. I love how the author divulges about her own personal and painful experiences with love, which was relatable on many levels. I truly believe you can't advise others on self-love and self-awareness unless you have gone through the spiritual and emotional journey yourself. I didn't think I would gain much from this book at first, because I always felt like I loved myself, I mean I think most people don't go around thinking they hate themselves. It's funny because the phrase "love yourself" is such a cliche that you hear ALL THE TIME, yet I never truly examined what that means and how you really practice it in your everyday life. Christine actually explains what loving yourself means, not just through thoughts, but through ACTIONS! Finally realizing what loving myself meant was the biggest epiphany I've had in my 20's. I feel like my life's course has changed direction and now that I practice self-love, I will never settle for an unfulfilling or bad relationship. All of my previous failed relationships amount to one thing- LACK OF SELF-LOVE. I looked into the deepest parts of myself in a way that I had never done before, it felt like I had lived in this body my entire life, but had never gotten to know ME. It was refreshing, exhilarating, and amazing!!! With that said, I would recommend this book to anyone, but you have to be willing to do the mental and emotional work. You will really get to know your flaws, and your mistakes and in the end achieve self-growth,self-love, and self-confidence- the most invaluable things in life. I promise it will be worth it! Review: YESSS - This book is as real as life can get. ALL of the book is captivating, enlightening and challenging all draped up snugly into one. One may need to pause when the lessons come as they hit hard, hard enough to be mad at the author at time, however, it is within the pause that you find your center, gather your worth and get back in the game of learning critical lessons to self advancement. This book is not one that you simply recommend to anyone as you have got to be on that self awareness journey and it falls into your lap when you have asked questions to the Universe that you are ready for the answers which you can only find here. If you're thin skinned and easily offended, drowning in self pity this book may not be for you. If you are at the place where you know what you desire out of life but just can't put your finger on why it hasn't come your way then purchase this book like yesterday. You'd have to make some bold at times scary decisions without knowing how you're going to survive but let me tell you when you do magic happens!! ## Features - Used Book in Good Condition ## Technical Specifications | Specification | Value | |---------------|-------| | Best Sellers Rank | #1,323,897 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #17,072 in Personal Transformation Self-Help | | Customer Reviews | 4.5 out of 5 stars 562 Reviews | ## Images ![Choosing ME Before WE: Every Woman's Guide to Life and Love - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71vs6OiMX2L.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ This book has changed my perspective on life 180 degrees! *by M***N on August 21, 2016* I have recently been on a journey of self-discovery and I decided to explore the long list of self-help books that will give me insight on love, relationships, and dating. You have to really be at a transitional (or desperate) point in your life to start reading everything and anything that will give you clarity. In the midst of this existential phase, I have read many many many books, but this has by far been the most life changing. I love how the author divulges about her own personal and painful experiences with love, which was relatable on many levels. I truly believe you can't advise others on self-love and self-awareness unless you have gone through the spiritual and emotional journey yourself. I didn't think I would gain much from this book at first, because I always felt like I loved myself, I mean I think most people don't go around thinking they hate themselves. It's funny because the phrase "love yourself" is such a cliche that you hear ALL THE TIME, yet I never truly examined what that means and how you really practice it in your everyday life. Christine actually explains what loving yourself means, not just through thoughts, but through ACTIONS! Finally realizing what loving myself meant was the biggest epiphany I've had in my 20's. I feel like my life's course has changed direction and now that I practice self-love, I will never settle for an unfulfilling or bad relationship. All of my previous failed relationships amount to one thing- LACK OF SELF-LOVE. I looked into the deepest parts of myself in a way that I had never done before, it felt like I had lived in this body my entire life, but had never gotten to know ME. It was refreshing, exhilarating, and amazing!!! With that said, I would recommend this book to anyone, but you have to be willing to do the mental and emotional work. You will really get to know your flaws, and your mistakes and in the end achieve self-growth,self-love, and self-confidence- the most invaluable things in life. I promise it will be worth it! ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ YESSS *by A***E on January 6, 2017* This book is as real as life can get. ALL of the book is captivating, enlightening and challenging all draped up snugly into one. One may need to pause when the lessons come as they hit hard, hard enough to be mad at the author at time, however, it is within the pause that you find your center, gather your worth and get back in the game of learning critical lessons to self advancement. This book is not one that you simply recommend to anyone as you have got to be on that self awareness journey and it falls into your lap when you have asked questions to the Universe that you are ready for the answers which you can only find here. If you're thin skinned and easily offended, drowning in self pity this book may not be for you. If you are at the place where you know what you desire out of life but just can't put your finger on why it hasn't come your way then purchase this book like yesterday. You'd have to make some bold at times scary decisions without knowing how you're going to survive but let me tell you when you do magic happens!! ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Absolutely amazing! *by A***P on September 14, 2018* Wow this book has forever changed me. I went through a divorce and became very unhappy. I bounced back into another relationship looking for happiness when in reality I needed to find happiness within myself. I have learned from this book how to look at life differently, how to place myself and my feelings above anyone else, and how to truly love myself. I have accepted my flaws and worked on myself to better ME for ME. I am starting to find happiness within myself and not depending on others for happiness. Thank you Christine for writing this book. I can't thank you enough. You have helped me so much. I can finally look at myself in the mirror without hating every inch of myself. God bless! ## Frequently Bought Together - Choosing ME Before WE: Every Woman's Guide to Life and Love - Madly in Love with ME: The Daring Adventure of Becoming Your Own Best Friend - Overwhelmed and Over It: Embrace Your Power to Stay Centered and Sustained in a Chaotic World --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - πŸ›’ **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** β€” Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** β€” Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - πŸ’° **No Hidden Fees** β€” All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - πŸ”„ **15-Day Free Returns** β€” Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - πŸ”’ **Secure Payments** β€” Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** β€” Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.com.cy/products/11699279-choosing-me-before-we-every-womans-guide-to-life-love](https://www.desertcart.com.cy/products/11699279-choosing-me-before-we-every-womans-guide-to-life-love) --- *Product available on Desertcart Cyprus* *Store origin: CY* *Last updated: 2026-10-26*