Love Yourself and Let the Other Person Have It Your Way

So it was the new year. There I was, not out celebrating but sitting at home miserable and contemplating if life was even worth living. I was feeling depressed and really down on my self. My relationship with my Boyfriend was not going the way I wanted it to. My anxiety levels was at an all time high. My life seemed to be at a complete standstill, and the more I thought about it the deeper down in the dumps of despair I sank. I knew I had to do something but I wasn't sure what to do. I was browsing self help books on Amazon and came across this book. I read the reviews but was skeptical about whether this would help me or not. I had purchased previous books and none of them seemed to help me or I only felt better temporarily.I admit I purchased this book out of desperation.Even as I read the first couple chapters I was still skeptical. Then by the time I got to the 8th chapter, It hit me. It wasn't that my life was out of order. Everything was perfect. The people in my life was not the problem. The problem was me. It was my negative thinking that was holding me back from having the good things in my life and being happy.The author challanged me to change my thinking and to apply love in all areas of my life. I will admit Its not easy to change something that you have been doing all of your life. But with nothing to lose I decided to give it a shot and if I had gained nothing well, I will have lost nothing.Its only been a few days since I purchased this book and my life has already improved dramatically. The biggest improvement is from within. I am not as anxious and stressed out as I was once. In fact I have always been naturally a very nervous person. However, I feel very relaxed and calm even at a very stressful and demanding job.In addition, In only the few days I have applied the techniques here, good things has happened to me as far as my relationships go. Its as if my luck is changing and the tides are turning. My boyfriend is reaching out to me more without me even having to ask. People I felt I didn't get along with at work are actually being nice to me. I can even feel the kindness of strangers where I would have judged them before its as if good things are happening in all areas of my life.Had I read the negative reviews here and passed this book up I would have missed out on what has been a life changing experience for me. All this has been within less than a week of applying what I read. I am now excited about my life and to see what else the New Year has to bring especially if I continue to apply the techniques in this book in the longterm. Like some have mentioned for me it was very difficult to make the transition to loving thoughts. What helped me was to take a tape recorder and speak the actual positive affirmations into the recorder "I love myself" I release and let of all negative and non loving feelings" etc.. and then play back to myself on a continous loop. It sounds silly but for me it is helping me to let go of the non love feelings and replace them with loving thoughts and feelings and I feel like it is sinking down into my brain and it is finally catching on. I will update at the one month mark.

Great examples of people using this bookLove to read their results

The premise of this book is explained in the first 40 pages. Then it moves onto giving one the experience of the technique. There have been a few people here who have given this book a bad review because it seems to repeat itself over and over. And by this I mean a single line or a few words are repeated several times in succession in many places in the book. It may seem a bit childish and/or redundant unless you actually pay attention and READ what the book says. Apparently they did not read the instructions on page 44 which clearly say... "Are you ready for an exercise to put this into practice?" Next it says... "Then let's get started. Remember, take your time and "play along" rather than just reading the words." It must be at this particular point in the book where certain "intelligent souls" get lost. One must "play along" to "get it".When you play along and actually "do" the exercises, something wonderful happens. In so many cases one will experience a felt sense of something changing inside. You may suddenly realize that a long ignored "clutching feeling" that you've been carrying around in your chest or gut has just let go of you and you get a feeling of lightness or release. Sometimes a giddiness will overcome the one who will "play along" and you'll find yourself smiling or laughing right out loud, which comes naturally from letting go of these old emotions.All I'm saying is if you are going to purchase this book, give it the respect it deserves and not only read it, but "play along" with the exercises. Yes, the words and phrases are repeated often. That's because it's talking to your subconscious mind in a way it understands and that deeper part of you follows along and lets go of the pain and hurt of years past. It's totally worth the effort which is minimal for what you will receive in return... Freedom!Yes, I highly recommend this book!

I bought this book on the recommendation of Michael Neill, whom I rate highly. In fact I bought 2 to give to people I know. I am reading it together with my partner and my logical mind is saying it is very repetitive and could have been condensed into a few pages. But subconsiously the repetition is hypnotic and necessary. The repetition is what hammers the ideas home.If you've been living a negative life and your mind is engrained with negative responses - you get angry, critical, defensive, upset, ill, things are always going wrong... Then this is the book for you. The book is telling you to let go of negative thoughts and give yourself love and approval. You may not like or believe what it has to say (again and again) but that's the point - if what you've been doing (and thinking) has not worked, you need to try something else - and this is it. Love attracts love, positive attracts positive. And there are quotes on every other page from people who have used the method and improved their life in amazing and varied ways.I do recommend this book and I do know that love IS the answer.

This book is great for making us aware of our internal thoughts, how worry and stress create the exact opposite of the things we are trying to manifest. By focusing on love and sending love to things that stress, worry and annoy us, we are able to turn negative situations into positive ones. This book has shifted my perception of life and I am excited to put these practices into my daily life.

Comme d'habitude Larry Crane nous secoue le cocotier, et nous voila souriants et énergisés...Et ça marche! ...Quand on joue le jeu!

Very good book about letting go of your non loving thoughts and being more positive, loving towards yourself and others. Recommended to read.

Un livre qui parle de l'amour. Mais pas de l'amour que nous attendons habituellement de la part des autres, mais de notre amour, et de notre capacité à aimer, gratuitement, sans attendre un retour. Car le meilleur moyen pour ressentir de l'amour, c'est d'aimer.S'aimer soi même, aimer ceux qui nous entourent, aimer ceux que l'on "n'aime pas", aimer les situations qu'on n'aime pas. Et une chose merveilleuse se produira : Nous sommes remplis d'amour. Ça vaut le coup d'essayer, et celui qui en bénéficiera le plus, c'est celui (ou celle) qui le fait.Au sujet du livre lui même, il est assez répétitif, mais on a tellement peu l'habitude d'aimer, qu'un certain nombre de répétitions est peut-être nécessaire, avant que ça rentre.

FANTASTIC BOOK, ARIVED SUPER QUICK... NO DRAMA... SHOWS YOU HOW SIMPLE IT IS TO TURN YOUR LIFE AROUND JUST KEEP CHECKING WITH THIS BOOK!! XX